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Free No-Contact Security Audit

How Many Gaps Are Left
in Your Boundary?

Most no-contact boundaries fail not because of weak intentions — but because of specific technical gaps that make contact possible without either person fully realising it. This audit shows you exactly where your boundary is exposed.

20 of the most common contact loopholes across phone, email, social media, and physical channels
Risk level for each gap (High, Medium) so you know which to close first
Your scored result tells you exactly how secure your boundary currently is

Run the audit below. Your security level and next step appear at the end.

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The No-Contact Security Audit

Check the gaps. Know your exposure.
Close the highest-risk ones first.

For each item, click once if this gap is currently open (red ✗). Click again if it is fully closed and verified (green ✓). Be honest — partial closures count as open.

This audit covers 20 of the 47 known no-contact loopholes. Each one represents a channel through which contact can occur — deliberately or accidentally. Even one open High-risk gap makes the entire boundary technically permeable.

📱 Phone & Direct Messaging

Primary phone number blocked — in device Settings AND carrier app. Both layers required or the block is incomplete. HIGH
iMessage blocked separately — iOS blocks SMS and iMessage independently. Blocking the number in Phone does not block iMessage. HIGH
WhatsApp, Telegram, Signal blocked — these bypass SMS blocks entirely. Each app requires its own independent block. HIGH
Unknown numbers silenced — iOS: Silence Unknown Callers. Android: Block Unknown. Without this, any new number they create gets through. HIGH
Voicemail drop loophole closed — services like Slydial can deposit a voicemail without calling. Disable or filter voicemail at the carrier level. MEDIUM

📧 Email

Primary email auto-deleted — Gmail: filter to delete. Outlook: rule to permanently delete. The email must never reach your inbox, not just go to spam. HIGH
Secondary and alias emails filtered — filter by display name, not just address. New email addresses from the same person can still reach you if you only filter the original. HIGH
Third-party forwarding briefed — trusted contacts told clearly not to forward messages. The relay person becomes a known channel the moment they forward anything. MEDIUM

📲 Social Media

Instagram: full block verified on web AND mobile — mobile blocks do not always sync to the browser version. Both must be confirmed separately. HIGH
Instagram: account set to private — blocking prevents direct contact but a public profile can still be viewed from any account including new ones. HIGH
Facebook AND Messenger blocked separately — Facebook and Messenger are separate systems. Blocking on Facebook does not block Messenger. HIGH
LinkedIn blocked — LinkedIn operates entirely separately from personal social media blocks. ‘Professional outreach’ is not a boundary exception. HIGH
Secondary accounts addressed — after being blocked, creating a new account is the most common workaround. Profile set to private and new follower requests restricted. HIGH
Mutual friends briefed — someone can monitor your content through a mutual’s account without you knowing. Close friends stories or full privacy setting required. MEDIUM

🔒 Physical & Shared Digital Spaces

Shared streaming and subscription accounts separated — shared Netflix, Spotify, or Apple accounts are contact channels. Passwords changed and access removed. MEDIUM
Shared cloud folders disconnected — Google Drive, Dropbox, iCloud shared folders allow file uploads that function as message delivery. Access revoked. MEDIUM
Known shared physical locations identified — regular spots (gym, coffee shop, school) where contact is foreseeable. Alternative arrangements in place. MEDIUM
Written boundary statement exists — a signed, dated document using absolute language (zero direct contact, effective date) shared with at least two accountability partners. HIGH
Monthly system check scheduled — apps update, settings reset, new platforms emerge. A monthly calendar reminder to verify all blocks are still active. MEDIUM
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Gaps Open
0
Gaps Closed
0 to 3 Gaps: Strong Boundary

Your technical boundary is largely in place. The remaining exposure is low-risk or already being managed. The Lighthouse Protocol will close the remaining gaps and give you the accountability structures and relapse protocol that keep the boundary permanent — not just current.

4 to 8 Gaps: Partial Boundary — Significant Exposure

Your boundary is partially in place but has enough gaps to make contact technically possible across multiple channels. The Lighthouse Protocol’s Digital Fortress Implementation Checklist closes all 23 high-risk loopholes in a single focused session. The 47-Loophole Elimination Matrix closes the rest.

9 to 14 Gaps: Boundary Has Major Vulnerabilities

The boundary currently exists more as intention than structure. Multiple high-risk channels are open. Contact is possible right now through at least two or three of them. The Lighthouse Protocol is specifically designed to address this — starting with the Digital Fortress phase that closes the most dangerous gaps first, in the right order.

15 to 20 Gaps: No Technical Boundary Yet in Place

There is currently no technical barrier between you and contact. Willpower alone is managing something that requires structure. The Lighthouse Protocol is exactly what this situation needs — it works through each channel systematically and makes contact technically impossible, not just unlikely.

The audit showed you the gaps.
The Lighthouse Protocol closes them — permanently.

The 23-point Digital Fortress checklist, the 47-loophole matrix, the accountability architecture, the relapse protocol, and the partner presentation playbook. Everything you need to build a boundary that runs on structure, not willpower.

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Inside The Course

Everything in The Lighthouse Protocol

One course. One payment of $97. The complete system for building a no-contact boundary that runs on structure — not willpower, not promises, not hope.

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The Lighthouse Protocol
The 45-minute core audio. Why willpower always fails and structure always wins. The Lighthouse Position, the Enforcer Position, and the exact framework for making contact technically impossible rather than just unlikely.
Core Audio
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The Digital Fortress Implementation Checklist
23-point no-contact setup guide across 4 phases: Witness (audit every channel), Automate (block everything), Lock (written boundary statement), Lighthouse (monthly maintenance). Tick each box only when the action is fully complete.
Part 2
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The Accountability Architecture Blueprint
5 accountability structures that build safety without surveillance or daily check-ins. The Lighthouse Position vs the Enforcer Position — and exactly how to build a system where information comes from the architecture, not from interrogation.
Part 3
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The Relapse Response Protocol
The exact 60-minute action plan for the first hour after contact — intentional or accidental. Four contact types with calibrated responses. Disclosure scripts. The key reframe: relapse is a detour, not a destination, and this protocol keeps it that way.
Part 4
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The Partner Presentation Playbook
4-part opening structure and 7 word-for-word scripts for introducing the Lighthouse Protocol system to your partner. The framing shift from “I am proving I’m not cheating” to “We are building something that makes this question permanently irrelevant.”
Part 5
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The Loophole Elimination Matrix
All 47 known boundary workarounds across 9 categories — with what each loophole is, how it tends to get used, exactly how to close it, and the risk level if left open. Work through it like a security audit. Check each box only when the closure is verified.
Part 6
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The Top 10 Loophole Closer
The 10 loopholes responsible for 90% of no-contact failures — with exact closure instructions, step-by-step technical guidance, and 4 real-world scenario guides. Close the highest-risk gaps in one 60–90 minute session.
Part 7

Intentions do not close loopholes.
Structure does.

The audit showed you exactly where your boundary is currently permeable. The Lighthouse Protocol closes every gap with a verified technical action — not a promise, not a decision to do better, but a system that makes contact structurally impossible. All 7 parts unlocked immediately.

Full course and all 7 parts included: $97

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