Free no contact boundary audit
How Many Gaps Are Left
in Your Boundary?
Take the free no contact boundary audit — most no-contact boundaries fail not because of weak intentions, but because of specific technical gaps that make contact possible without either person fully realising it.
Run the audit below. Your security level and next step appear at the end.
The No-Contact Security Audit
Check the gaps. Know your exposure.
Close the highest-risk ones first.
For each item, click once if this gap is currently open (red ✗). Click again if it is fully closed and verified (green ✓). Be honest — partial closures count as open.
This audit covers 20 of the 47 known no-contact loopholes. Each one represents a channel through which contact can occur — deliberately or accidentally. Even one open High-risk gap makes the entire boundary technically permeable.
📱 Phone & Direct Messaging
📲 Social Media
🔒 Physical & Shared Digital Spaces
Your technical boundary is largely in place. The remaining exposure is low-risk or already being managed. The Lighthouse Protocol will close the remaining gaps and give you the accountability structures and relapse protocol that keep the boundary permanent — not just current.
Your boundary is partially in place but has enough gaps to make contact technically possible across multiple channels. The Lighthouse Protocol’s Digital Fortress Implementation Checklist closes all 23 high-risk loopholes in a single focused session. The 47-Loophole Elimination Matrix closes the rest.
The boundary currently exists more as intention than structure. Multiple high-risk channels are open. Contact is possible right now through at least two or three of them. The Lighthouse Protocol is specifically designed to address this — starting with the Digital Fortress phase that closes the most dangerous gaps first, in the right order.
There is currently no technical barrier between you and contact. Willpower alone is managing something that requires structure. The Lighthouse Protocol is exactly what this situation needs — it works through each channel systematically and makes contact technically impossible, not just unlikely.
The audit showed you the gaps.
The Lighthouse Protocol closes them — permanently.
The 23-point Digital Fortress checklist, the 47-loophole matrix, the accountability architecture, the relapse protocol, and the partner presentation playbook. Everything you need to build a boundary that runs on structure, not willpower.
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Is this for you
This audit is for a specific moment
Not everyone going no-contact needs a 20-point technical audit. This is for the moment when you suspect your boundary has gaps you haven’t found yet.
This is for you if
- You have tried to go no-contact before and it kept breaking down through channels you hadn’t thought of
- You know you have blocked the obvious things but suspect there are gaps you haven’t found
- You want a checklist, not just an intention, to know your boundary is actually secure
- You are rebuilding trust with a partner and need a verifiable system, not just a promise
- You want to know exactly which gaps are highest-risk so you know what to close first
This is not for you if
- You are in immediate danger — please contact emergency services or a domestic abuse specialist first
- You do not currently have or want a no-contact boundary in this situation
- You want this audit to replace honest conversation with your partner rather than support it
From people who ran the audit
They found the gaps they didn’t know about
“I thought I had blocked everything. I had 7 gaps open, including iMessage, which I genuinely did not know was separate from blocking the number in Phone. That one gap alone explained why contact kept getting through.”
“The written boundary statement item was the one that hit me. I had blocked all the digital channels but never actually written anything down or told anyone. Having an actual document changed how seriously I took the whole thing.”
Who made this
S.J.Howe
I write about the psychological and practical mechanics of affair recovery because understanding the mechanism is what changes outcomes. This audit is free because knowing your gaps is the starting point. The Lighthouse Protocol is the full system that follows.
The course gives you the complete Digital Fortress Implementation Checklist, the Accountability Architecture Blueprint, the Relapse Response Protocol, and the full 47-Loophole Elimination Matrix.
Before you wonder
Three things people ask before running this
“Won’t all this technical blocking feel paranoid or excessive?”
The audit is not about suspicion — it is about removing ambiguity. A clearly closed channel means neither person has to wonder whether contact is “possible but unlikely.” Most people report relief, not paranoia, once the structure is in place, because it ends the constant low-level vigilance that comes with an unverified boundary.
“What if I close the gaps and contact still happens through something not on this list?”
This audit covers 20 of 47 known loopholes — the most common ones. It is not exhaustive by design; it is meant to close the highest-risk channels fast. The Lighthouse Protocol’s full 47-Loophole Elimination Matrix covers the complete list, including the less common channels this audit does not.
“My partner doesn’t trust that I’ll actually do this. How is this different from just promising again?”
A verified technical closure is observable in a way a promise is not — either iMessage is blocked or it isn’t, either the written statement exists or it doesn’t. The Lighthouse Protocol’s Partner Presentation Playbook specifically reframes this from “trust my intentions” to “verify the system,” which is a fundamentally different conversation.
Inside the course
Everything in The Lighthouse Protocol
One course. One payment of $97. The complete system for building a no-contact boundary that runs on structure — not willpower, not promises, not hope.
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The contact you are dreading may already be one click away.
The new account that just followed you. The number that texted from somewhere unfamiliar. The shared folder you forgot still exists. Find out which of the 20 most common gaps are still open in your boundary — and get your audit result by email.
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Intentions do not close loopholes. Structure does. The audit showed you exactly where your boundary is currently permeable. The Lighthouse Protocol closes every gap with a verified technical action — not a promise, not a decision to do better, but a system that makes contact structurally impossible.
Full course and all 7 parts included: $97
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